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一、治心篇 001 不学礼，无以立 ...................................................002 礼以严分，和以通情分 .......................................007 赤子之心，人生真性 ...........................................011 治心防于念之初生、情之未起 ...........................014 平日不自放纵 .......................................................018 心不为所役，始得泰然 .......................................020 志之所趋所向，涵泳内外本末 ...........................023 慎独为训，暗室不欺 ..........................................026 君子三戒 ..............................................................030 富贵不能淫，贫贱不能移 ..................................034 知足不辱，知止不殆 ..........................................038 二、诚敬篇 043 以德服人，心悦诚服 ..........................................044 修德之功，在于主敬 ..........................................048 诚敬存心，实心体贴 ..........................................053 须臾不离一敬字 ..................................................058 当存敬畏之心 ......................................................062 追远致敬，每事不忘 ..........................................066 至诚无息，积德累功 ..........................................071 三、孝善篇 075 良心能胜私欲 ......................................................076 立好言，行好事 ..................................................080 人生于世，*要行善 ..........................................084 一心行善，天祐其祥 ..........................................088 惟善可遗福子孙 ..................................................092 竭诚体贴，事亲至孝 ..........................................095 曲尽人子事亲之道 ..............................................101 尽孝须顺适为安，自然为乐 ..............................105 以孝治天下 ..........................................................110 持善行道，可谓真孝 ..........................................114 儿女不可过于娇养 ..............................................117 四、戒恶篇 121 恶念不除，持念珠何益 ......................................122 戒传恶与幸灾乐祸 ..............................................125 忿懥好乐，难得其正 .........................................128 好恶之心，难得其正 .........................................132 五、俭廉篇 135 俭约不贪，养福致寿 .........................................136 天地所生，养人有限 .........................................140 生性廉洁，不奢用度 .........................................144 太贵之物，生性不喜 .........................................148 当重五谷，不贵金玉 .........................................152 天地好生，不得肆情烹脍 .................................156 祖父之基，不可易视 .........................................160 宜永念祖父所积之福 .........................................164 六、待人篇 171 虚己游世，与人相安 .........................................172 持身处世，以恕存心 .........................................176 不尚空言，不非议人 .........................................179 决不欺人 .............................................................183 凡人各有识见 .....................................................186 逸必念人之劳，安必思人之苦 .........................191 拂人之性，灾必逮夫身 .....................................194 好名之人，名亦不保 .........................................197 取笑必然自招 .....................................................201 年高之人，理当厚恤 .........................................206 忌讳之事，皆彼此爱敬 .....................................210