最受欢迎的做事方式-第2版

第１章　人际交往要细“心”，大处着眼小处着手 ···························· 1
把细节放在眼里，才不会吃哑巴亏 ··········································· 2
在形象上多花点心思，会让你大放异彩 ····································· 4
事情的成败通常蕴藏在点滴中 ················································· 7
在小事上多留心会让你同趋完美要 ··········································· 9
尽孝道也需要重视细节 ························································· 11
用细节表现你的素质 ···························································· 14
大事要做好，小事少不了 ······················································ 16
专注细节，做事要追求完美 ··················································· 18

第２章　培养友情不可少，平步青云有助力 ···································· 23
朋友是步步高升的电梯 ························································· 24
人情债靠“帮”出来 ···························································· 26
与人合作成大事 ·································································· 29
老乡为我所用 ····································································· 32
巧借亲情办事 ····································································· 34
多个朋友多条路 ·································································· 38
善于利用同学之间的情意 ······················································ 40

第３章　埋头做事求踏实，巧借外力更睿智 ···································· 43
成大事需要借助外力 ···························································· 44
“巧借”他人之言 ······························································· 46
让别人的手为自己服务 ························································· 49
年轻人创业，不妨“借鸡生蛋” ············································· 51
因势而起，借力使力 ···························································· 53
众人拾柴火焰高 ·································································· 56
假借他人之名巧办事 ···························································· 58
利用他人的“权威”光环 ······················································ 60

第４章　不要半瓶子醋晃荡，自谦一点更容易成事 ··························· 63
死要面子只会活受罪 ···························································· 64
年轻人要担起责任 ······························································· 67
不要同时追两只兔子 ···························································· 69
给自己*严格的要求 ···························································· 72
尊重那些你觉得“不起眼”的人 ············································· 75
年轻也要懂得中庸之道 ························································· 77
停止了学习就停止了进步 ······················································ 80
看开利益，谦让一点得到更多 ················································ 83
谦恭有度，敬己敬人 ···························································· 86
得意时切忌不要忘形 ···························································· 88

第５章　年轻气盛吃大亏，沉住气往往成大器 ································· 93
情绪化的人只会坏事 ···························································· 94
忍住怒气才有机会出人头地 ··················································· 97
遇事沉住气，分析利与弊 ······················································ 99
年轻人该妥协的时候不要固执 ·············································· 101
临危不乱，处变不惊 ·························································· 104
看清楚形势，别做无用功 ···················································· 106
多一份耐心，少一份误解 ···················································· 108
因为年轻，所以更要沉着 ···················································· 110
好事要淡定，别乐极生悲 ···················································· 111
遇突发情况，冷静并自制 ···················································· 113
吃亏时，你是否懂得忍耐 ···················································· 116

第６章　脸皮不可太薄，多一点执着更易成功 ······························· 119
放下面子，你的路会更好走 ················································· 120
多坚持一分钟会催化出好的结果 ··········································· 122
耐下性子做事，一步一个脚印 ·············································· 124
设定国标，坚持到底 ·························································· 126
坚忍是成功的一大因素 ······················································· 129
坚持不懈是成功的秘诀 ······················································· 131

第７章　做事讲究条理，把握分寸欲速则不达 ······························· 133
一步登天不切实际 ····························································· 134
集中精力，做*重要的事 ···················································· 136
运筹帷幄者方能决胜千里 ···················································· 139
国标是成功的种子 ····························································· 140
做切实可行的计划 ····························································· 143
适时调整，实施具有弹性 ···················································· 145
善抓机会，促成质的改变 ···················································· 147
会用力更要会用脑 ····························································· 149
多给自己积极的心理暗示 ···················································· 151
凡事要三思，莫草率行事 ···················································· 153

第８章　脑筋不要太死，学会变通万事通达 ·································· 157
出现尴尬时，巧妙地打圆场 ················································· 158
在错误的地方找不到想要的答案 ··········································· 161
倒过来看问题就能迎刃而解 ················································· 163
拒绝有方，说“不”有道 ···················································· 165
多一点灵活变通，以巧取胜 ················································· 167
思则变，变则通，通则活 ···················································· 170
换一种方式结果大不同 ······················································· 173
年轻人善变，更要随机应变 ················································· 175
突破绝境的方法 ································································ 177
绕路而行更易解决困难 ······················································· 179

第９章　懂得刚柔并济，少为自己制造冤家 ·································· 183
做人如弹簧，才能游刃有余 ················································· 184
离职不是和过去一刀两断 ···················································· 186
闺中密友交往也要把握分寸 ················································· 190
年轻时不要轻易树敌 ·························································· 193
能容人者得人心 ································································ 195
能屈能伸刚柔并济 ····························································· 199

第10 章　做事雷厉风行，把握机会步步高升 ································· 203
抓紧时问，更要提高效率 ···················································· 204
犹豫只会误事，果断做出决策 ·············································· 207
决定一件事，就立刻行动起来 ·············································· 209
如何让自己的做事效率迅速提升 ··········································· 212
办事能力就是工作能力 ······················································· 214
讲究方法，高效解决问题 ···················································· 216
做事要会分轻重缓急 ·························································· 218
想到做到，要做就做*好 ···················································· 221
行动制胜，与人拉开差距 ···················································· 223
年轻人养成做事雷厉风行的好习惯 ········································ 225

第11 章　保持阳光心态，成败得失宠辱不惊 ································· 229
任何时候都需要乐观 ·························································· 230
不为错误找借口 ································································ 232
有出息的人重视小积累 ······················································· 235
要勇于坚持要到底 ····························································· 237
年轻人做事要全身心投入 ···················································· 239
不要让自卑将自己绊倒 ······················································· 241
气馁是心中的魔鬼 ····························································· 244
经常对自己说些鼓励的话 ···················································· 246
一颗有梦想的心带你高飞 ···················································· 248
不要让过去干扰现在的你 ···················································· 251

第12 章　修炼敏锐眼光，整合信息以巧搏富 ································· 255
练就一双火眼，不被假象所迷惑 ··········································· 256
发现需求，小产品撬动大市场 ·············································· 258
捕捉灵感，成为创业高手 ···················································· 261
搏击商海，信息就是商机 ···················································· 264
挖掘想法，思考更能致富 ···················································· 266
对于有心人来说，机会无处不在 ··········································· 269
只有独特的眼光，才能发现蒙尘的金子 ·································· 272
不是缺少财富，而是缺少发现它的眼睛 ·································· 274

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