包邮人性的弱点-[名著双语读物.中文导读+英文原版]

 **部分  处理人际关系的基本技巧partⅰ  fundamental techniques inhandling people第1章“如果想要采蜜，就勿踢翻蜂箱”/chapter 1 “if you want to gather honey，          don’t kick over the beehive”. 2第2章 与人交往的一大秘密/chapter 2 the big secret of dealing with people. 17第3章 “如此做的人世界与他同行，不这样做的人会踽踽独行”/chapter 3 “he who can do this has the whole word with him.           he who cannot walks a lonelyway”. 33 第二部分  让人喜欢你的六种方法partⅱ  six ways to make people like you第1章这样做，你会处处受欢迎/chapter 1  do this and you’ll be welcomeanywhere. 52第2章  留下良好**印象的简单方法/chapter 2  a simple way to make a goodfirst impression/  66第3章  如果不这样做，你就会招惹麻烦/chapter 3 if you don’t do this，you are headed for trouble  75第4章  成为健谈家的捷径/chapter 4 an easy way to become a good conversationalist 86第5章  怎样让人感兴趣/chapter 5 how to interest people. 95第6章  怎样让人立即喜欢你/chapter 6 how to make people like you instantly  100第三部分  如何赢得别人对你的思维方式的赞同part ⅲ  twelve ways to win people toyour way of thinking第1章  你不可能赢得争论/chapter 1 you can’t win an argument 114第2章  避免仇敌的一个有效方法/chapter 2  a sure way of makingenemies—and how to avoid it 122第3章  勇于承认自己的错误/chapter 3 if you’re wrong，admit it 134第4章  学会善待别人chapter 4  a drop of honey. 143第5章  苏格拉底的秘密/chapter 5 the secret of socrates. 152第6章  应付投诉的安全阀/chapter 6 the safety valve in handling complaints  159第7章  怎样赢得合作/chapter 7 how to get cooperation. 165第8章  为你创造奇迹的一个方法/chapter 8  a formula that will workwonders for you  172第9章  每个人都想要的东西/chapter 9 what everybody wants. 178第10章  人人都喜欢的吸引力/chapter 10 an appeal that everybody likes  188第11章  电影如此做，电视如此做，你为何不这样做呢？/chapter 11 the movies do it. tv does it. why don’t you do it?. 194第12章  当其他的都不管用时，试试这个/chapter 12 when nothing else works, try this  200 第四部分  作为领导：怎样改变他人而又不得罪人或引起怨恨part ⅳ be a leader: how to change peoplewithout giving offence or arousing resentment第1章  为批评开篇的方法/chapter 1  if you must find fault，thisis the way to begin................... 206第2章  怎样批评才不会招致反感/chapter 2 how to criticize—and not be hated for it 213第3章  首先自我批评/chapter 3 talk about your own mistakes first 217第4章  没人喜欢服从指挥/chapter 4 no one likes to take orders. 222第5章  保全对方的面子/chapter 5 let the other person save face. 226第6章  怎样激励别人走向成功/chapter 6 how to spur people on to success  231第7章  给别人荣誉感/chapter 7 give a dog a good name. 237第8章  不要强调错误的严重性/chapter 8 make the fault seem easy to correct 242第9章  让别人乐意遵循你的要求/chapter 9 making people glad to do what you want 247  第五部分  增加家庭生活幸福感的七个方法/part ⅴ  seven rules for making yourhome life happier第1章  唠叨不休是在为婚姻自掘坟墓/chapter 1  how to dig your marital grave          inthe quickest possible way. 254第2章  爱对方，并给他自由/chapter 2 love and let live. 261第3章  互相指责会加速婚姻的破裂/chapter 3 do this and you’ll be looking up the          time-tablesto reno. 264第4章  让人人快乐的一条捷径/chapter 4  a quick way to make everybodyhappy  266第5章  鲜花对女人来说是爱的语言/chapter 5 they mean so much to a woman  271第6章  寻找幸福的路上，不要忽略这一点/chapter 6 if you want to be happy，don’t neglect this one  274第7章“婚姻的文盲”做不得/chapter 7 don’t be a “marriage illiterate”  279